Dirty General Election in Malaysia

05.05.2013
Its a BIG day for all Malaysian ---General Election 2013. All Malaysian vote for a HOPE.
We hope Malaysia can become a clean and safe country. We hope Malaysia can become better!

I am glad to see so many Malaysian unite together, and take part in the GE 13. Even some old people did tried their best to go the voting centre.

However, I felt sad and disappointed to the government. Why? Because Phantom Voter.

Phantom Voter: They are foreign workers who were employed for fraud voting in Malaysia General Election. They were provided free MyKad from some special department for voting.









I don't understand, why they can become a Malaysian so easily by just voting for the government; while some old citizens that staying in Malaysia for more than 60 years can't even get blue color MyKad and to be recognized as a real Malaysian citizen. They went through so many ways and seek help from politician but still can't even get a blue MyKad. My Facebook news feed wall is full of videos and pictures that showing Phantom Voter being caught at the voting centre. I feel sad because the foreign workers are being used by the government. Probably they don't even know what is General Election, just simply go and vote for the selected party. I feel disappointed because the election is polluted by governing party. And the major press publications and medias were being covered by them. 

What all Malaysian want is a clean and fair election.  

We are true Malaysian, we want a CLEAN country.

Please sign this petition to let the world know what is happening in my country, Malaysia

https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/democracy-crisis-malaysia-foreign-workers-were-employed-fraud-voting-malaysian-general-election/nBqKR7bm

Girls Do Care About Little Things in a Relationship

After reading this as the part of my research project on common problems in a relationship, I've decided to post this out.   C:
Girls do care about small or little things that make them happy/ surprised in a relationship. 

65 things that should never be overlooked in a relationship.

1. Regularly express to her that you need and value her.
2. Do things that make you laugh together.
3. Compliment her for her special qualities and be specific.
4. Put your arms around her when she needs comfort.
5. Speak respectfully, don’t demean her or hurt her feelings.
6. Give her time to be with her friends.
7. Take regular walks hand-in-hand.
8. Be enthusiastic over things that she’s excited about.
9. Do something you think she wants done before she asks.
10. Discuss changes with her first before you make them.
11. Show interest in the relationship and the things she values.
12. Allow her to teach you things without being defensive.
13. Let go of the small stuff.
14. Be a good listener and value what she says.
15. Get away from the routine to spend time together.
16. Go shopping with her without watching the clock.
17. Make her breakfast and clean up afterward.
18. Set specific relationship goals to achieve together.
19. Act like you are partners in all areas life.
20. Don’t take her for granted, always be polite. 
21. Admit your mistakes, and ask for forgiveness.
22. Defend her to others, especially to your family.
23. Don’t belittle her intelligence.
24. Scratch her back, rub her feet, and massage her neck.
25. Be especially helpful when she is not feeling well.
26. When she asks how your day went, give her details.
27. Never argue over money, it will damage your relationship.
28. Don’t embarrass her in front of others.
29. Make eye contact when the two of you are talking.
30. Show that you prefer her company over all others.
31. Give her your full attention whenever possible.
32. When she expresses her feelings listen with your heart.
33. Never flirt with another woman.
34. Brag about her and your relationship to others.
35. Surprise her with a card and flowers.
36. Call her when you know you are going to be late.
37. Give her your undivided attention when she’s talking.
38. Never compare her unfavorably with others.
39. Take care of yourself, It shows you care.
40. Be supportive. Help her to achieve her goals.
41. Run errands without complaining.
42. Sit close to her, even when you’re just watching TV.
43. Include her when you make plans.
44. Do things that make her feel cherished as a woman.
45. Build trust into your relationship.
46. Surprise her with a 15+ second kiss.
47. Stay in good of shape so she’s proud to be with you.
48. Be kinder to her than you are to strangers.
49. Make sure she feels valued above everyone else.
50. Continue to court her and date her.
51. Show affection for her in front of friends.
52. Hold her close when she is hurt or discouraged.
53. Surprise her with an unexpected gift.
54. Don’t forget to hold her hand in public.
55. Honor her and support her dignity.
56. Don’t dishonor her by eyeballing other women.
57. Fix dinner for her sometimes.
58. Be sympathetic when she’s feeling down.
59. Don’t ignore the small things that bother her.
60. Do things around the house that she wants done.
61. Tell her and show her that you love her every day.
62. When you’re away call or email often.
63. Show her affection without sexual intentions.
64. Show her affection with sexual intentions.
65. Let her see you reading and applying this list.

Link to the site: http://advancedlifeskills.com/blog/65-ways-to-make-her-feel-special/

Women and men sometimes perceive the same messages to have different meanings
Surprise her with a card or flowers. Don’t ignore the small things that bother her.